Yes, you deserve this book. You, the mom who has tears coursing down her face. You, the mom who doesn't understand what you're doing wrong. You, the mom who thinks you're failing. You, the mom who just feels off about something. You, the mom who has questions. You, the mom who has tons of answers and yet a gaping hole.
Colleen Duggan bares herself in an unprecedented, for the betterment of moms everywhere. Good Enough Is Good Enough is not just a fabulous read for you, but for your best friend and for the mom down the street. This is more than a pat on the back: it's also a soothing balm for your soul and a cheery cup of tea for your weary heart. Know, moms, that there is hope for you, for your family, and for eternity.
This book will be treasured for the wisdom it contains and for the gem of hope it uncovers for moms everywhere.
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Good Enough is Good Enough:
Confessions of an Imperfect Catholic Mom
by Colleen Duggan
Ave Maria Press, forthcoming Spring 2018
The truth about parenting is that you don’t have to get everything right and your family doesn’t need to be perfect. Colleen Duggan learned those lessons through years of struggling with unrealistic expectations.
In this frank and intimate story, Duggan explores the emotional and spiritual healing that needed to take place in her life in order to be the parent, spouse, and follower of Christ God created her to be. Sharing both funny parenting moments and difficult times of self-scrutiny, Duggan invites us to join her in experiencing God’s healing mercy and shows how to allow that healing to rejuvenate our lives and revitalize our families.
As a child, Colleen Duggan smoothed over the jagged edges of her difficult home life with good grades and perfect behavior. By the time Duggan was an adult, her drive to constantly be in control was her way of life. It was only when she began raising her family that she realized how damaging this compulsion was for both her and the people around her.
That’s when she began her faltering journey toward letting God be in control.
In Good Enough Is Good Enough, Duggan shares her heartaches—learning her child has a genetic disorder that might lead to cancer; realizing that her drive to do and be everything for everyone strained her marriage; and struggling with feelings of worthlessness after leaving her job to become “just” a stay-at-home, homeschooling mom. She also shares parenting difficulties we’ve all faced—trying to keep her kids quiet during Mass; wondering whether she’s giving them enough opportunities for growth; and balancing time spent on herself, her kids, and others. With each story, we feel the brokenness she tried to cover by being a “perfect” parent and the eventual realization that she needed to find healing.
Through the saints, the sacraments, and Catholic traditions and literature, Duggan found the Church a place where God’s love and healing grace embraced her. She invites us to the same conclusion: whether we are dealing with everyday frustrations or life-changing tragedies, it is in the heart of the Catholic Church that we are finally free to let go of our façades in order to embrace our brokenness and find healing.